The language with which we form post-hoc explanations for feelings or senses is almost invariably either deceptive or adopted. If we carefully examine the language we are using with ourselves, we will, at the very least, make a variety of shocking discoveries.

Some of them will be so shocking that … next time we encounter what we were reflecting upon… we might actually … have an entirely different experience and range of options. Simply because we are using another mode of language in our inner dialogue. New modes.

If we discover where we adopted the broken language modes from, even more amazing things happen. Staggering things.

Patterns in language become habits of expectation and relation. If we are actively aware of this, it is … infinitely amazing and instructive. If, something else is going on… we are prone to become that something, often to our unnecessary deprivation.

Of course, when we communicate, we will use only those forms with which we have had the luck or persistence to become familiar with. Any inventively creative person or team will be able to largely mitigate or avoid the pitfalls I have here traced but vaguely. This requires no special training or status, simply the capacity and decision to begin and proceed thus.